Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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If that’s what he wants,’ you might reason; ‘if those kinky fantasies are enough for him, then why not leave him to it? Sooner or later, he will figure out that he’s controlling you, rather than the other way around, and then the magic will stop working for him. Professional-quality units (such as those used by the police) are more escape proof – but also much more costly; if you’re spending serious money anyway, then you might be better off selecting a fully customized design. The ideal from his point of view, of course, would be for his admission to trigger a matching revelation from you: that you’ve been wishing to dominate him sexually for the longest time, but were too embarrassed. If you’re considering a cuff-based device, you’d be welladvised to check with the manufacturer to see if they have solved this problem.

Such activities can be at least partly explained by the fact that a typical adult male has several erections each day, and several more while he sleeps.So rather than depriving him of liberty and treating him cruelly, you are providing something that he wants and needs: the feeling of being controlled, teased, aroused and frustrated by the device, and by you. You will be able to ramp him up and bring him back down, tease him and please him and delight him (but not necessarily to the extent he would like). Then there’s the fact that men still tend to earn more than their female counterparts; that’s likely to make him the main breadwinner, which in turn gives him a lot of influence over how the household income is spent.

You will certainly experience a profound shift in the power and pleasure dynamic of your sexual relationship. It's well written and is there for the female keyholder who is new to the world of chastity or has already some experience but could use some background, tips and understanding of how her submissive husband/friend is wired. That fact will instantly draw his attention to his predicament, and keep it there until his arousal subsides. This spare key is not, of course, intended to be used whenever your man desires; to do so would be to defeat the whole object of keeping him in chastity. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice.MALE CHASTITY: The practice of securing a consenting adult male by means of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent. Some couples who practice male chastity use prostate massage to regularly ‘flush’ the man’s reproductive system, the idea being that his can help counter any long-term health risks. That does not describe all people in to chastity but I believe a majority including a vast majority of her readers.