A True Submissive: a collection of spanking stories

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I have a natural desire when fetching something for Him, to kneel and present the item with both hands upon my return. Sir has expressed appreciation for this, and thus I adopt it. Punishments can be corporal or reflective. Both work well, you need to figure out with your Dominant or submissive, which is best for you. Either way, corrections of missteps help deepen the connection between you and help strengthen the relationship. The Dominant can be more affectionate and the submissive can be more pleasing. Really, it’s for the submissive’s own good.

There are two different elements at play here. One is discipline and the other is punishment. How are they different, you ask? Don’t they go hand in hand? Yes and no. By definition discipline is to train to act in accordance with a specific set of rules. This is like going to the gym when you are training for a race of some sort. Punishment is a consequence of breaking a set of rules that have been established. Think detention for being late to school. Two sides of the same coin that work together for the best desired outcome. I can tell that you are really *trying* and that as each day goes by, and when your Husband tells you how happy he is with you, it will make YOU so much happier as well, and hopefully, it will help you to be more obedient and submissive to your Husband! Some girl went toKana's office, and asked her for Hard spanking in Punishment Room, not for punishment ofc, but her butt was tingling so much that she couldn't take it anymore, self spanking with brush at home was not enough I was preparing for our fifth date, and my mother told me to let him touch my **. To ask him to hold my ** with one hand and to spank me with the other. Once good communication and trust are established, then the couple can explore and play. It is important to note that there is such a thing as a toxic, or bad, Dom. Unfortunately, there are some Doms that do not take the submissive’s needs into account and are in it for what makes them feel good. They don’t understand or respect the limits that the submissive has agreed to.

Beyond BDSM: Pain as Pleasure

If we would live our lives by the way the Bible talks about, and follow God, we wouldn't have the BS we have in this country as much as we do. Marriage is the same way. If men would follow their role and encourage women to follow theirs, and women would follow their role and encourage men to live theirs as the Bible direct us to live, we wouldn't have all of this divorce. And it's a man's right under God to keep Authority in his home. As the church, the body of Christ, obeys Christ as our husband, the wife should obey her husband. And as Christ does, whether you believe it or not, but does discipline his bride, Believers in Jesus Christ, the husband has the right to discipline his wife. What good is having Authority if you can't use it. Christ will use his authority on us, especially during judgment. Therefore the husband has a right to use his authority, and even spank his wife when she disobeys. Don't like it, it doesn't matter. the Bible is the only opinion that matters, I seem to fail in charity, humility, and obedience. Pride is not being burned out of me. When I succeed in obeying the Rule, I fail at the same time because I have pride in succeeding." (Sister Luke, "The Nun's Story) Keeping a sub’s emotions “controlled” might help them be more obedient as a submissive by allowing them to have more steady emotions. When a sub can assist their dominant in achieving orgasm, they feel helpful and needed. Long story short I didn't settle down and taunted him saying he wouldn't F****ng dare! (don't often curse) He said We'll see. The conversation moved onto spanking and she lifted her skirt explaining that it’s good to spank in layers, removing them one by one as she’s getting used to the feeling. We had quite a deep discussion about physiology and endorphins and how she can take more the “warmer” she gets and how good it makes her feel, all this interspersed with an even greater assortments of cute noises in between spanking and at her request an occasional break so I could rub her bottom and soothe it before carrying on.

Touching Restrictions- The submissive is not allowed to touch or be touched by the Dominant. If the submissive shows their affection through touch, this can be especially difficult. My husband got really upset with me after almost ten years of marriage. I had been being b***hy for a long time and just kind of obstinate and not nice. Again this went on and off for a couple of years. He finally swatted my ** and took me upstairs telling me he was spanking me. I have no idea why but I went quietly. I went over his lap and was spanked on my bare bottom very soundly! BDSM contracts are a pretty important part of the relationship. Both parties need to bring something to the relationship to make their counterpart the best version of themselves. The contract outlines what the Dominant/submissive will be responsible for. They are meant to protect both people from hurt feelings and unrealistic expectations. They can include anything you want, really. And they can and should include any rules and consequences for rule breaking. These can be verbal or written out, but the most important part of the contract is communication. This is something that is ongoing throughout the duration of the relationship. Discipline Furthermore, such spamming violates terms of service and can lead to your internet service provider denying you service in the future.I guess I want to say that there is a choice, at least to some degree, of what you think and feel. Their purpose being to humilliate you and your decision not be humilliated. (you could decide to be angry, for example). Anyway, along with my belt, I wore one of my favorite pairs of belt whuppin’ sandals…a pair of dark brown, leather Rainbow thongs. Kind of hard to tell from the picture, but the color of them matches closely to the color of my belt. I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me. I got mad at him and he just laughed it off. That’s where I should have stopped it, but I kind of liked it.

This was great fun, we chatted, laughed, got to know each other over the questions and it made using the implements such a pleasurable experience. She even directed me to hit her harder with one of the paddles, she mentioned that using it soft causes a lot of stinging sensation but using it harder causes a thudding sensation which is what she was in the mood for on that day! This was unbelievable to me that she understands herself and her body so much when it comes to spanking and it really gave me the confidence to use the paddles with her. As I grew older, I came to terms with conventional ideas of male and female roles. I became a full-on feminist. It’s like I did a 180, which ended up being a 360. With no holds barred, it’s the home of sex positive chat, where Miranda will be joined each week by sexperts and special guests to explore the world of the erotic. Like I said earlier, discipline and punishment are two totally different things, but they are related. A good Dom will help teach the submissive how to push their limits. They are training the sub to be the best sub that they can be for them. I need to focus on completing the tasks at hand with as much fever and attention to detail as is possible. I must live as if perfect obedience were my soul's greatest delight, because it should be. The commands given to me are given by rightful authority, and as such, are given by God to be the greatest aids to my soul on its way to Heaven. I ought to love them, cherish them, and venerate them as I would the greatest treasure on earth, for truly, they are more precious and more efficacious than any earthly gain. God's Holy Will, not mine, must take precedence. He must increase and I must decrease.

Sir often does request specific hair styles of me, and I do my best to please Him in this way. Also, He prefers me to have pubic hair, which I have always removed. Growing out and getting used to this hair has been challenging for me, but His pleasure in knowing it is difficult but seeing that I obey nonetheless makes it a rewarding task. And we want to hear from you, too! As part of our podcast we’ll be sharing listeners’ experiences, thoughts and questions on a different theme every week. When a submissive finds the right Dominant, some magic can happen. But there is one more step. You both need to agree on what you will both do, your limits, and punishments. Contracts

Years later he said I needed a spanking in jest, I said okay. I guess I wanted it again. He told me if I got it, it would be real and very sound and I agreed. I spoke to him throughout the day and he confirmed that I wanted this. I said I did but taunted him saying I didn't believe he'd follow through. When he came home he bared me and spanked the daylights out me! He really gave me the spanking of my life. Nearly half (46%) said they felt turned on by role-playing. “I get very aroused serving another’s needs.” “I have powerful fantasies of seeing myself as the devoted slave of a powerful owner.” “I trust my dom to hurt me but never cause real harm. With the deep trust we share, we can experiment with all kinds of consensual non-consent.”

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